Gak kerasa ya... Satu bulan yang lalu, Icha masih ada di Jakarta.. :) Masih ketemu sama sahabat Icha yang nganterin Icha ke Airport, masih bisa ngerasain gimana rasanya hidup di Jakarta, dan bahkan, disaat-saat terakhir, Icha pun masih berurusan dengan Media; wartawan-wartawan dan juga infotainment yang "ngejar-ngejar" Icha sampai di Airport Soekarno-Hatta.
Walaupun mungkin sekarang udah masuk bulan Agustus (disini jam 1.ooam), tapi lumayan juga kalau flashback ke sebulan yang lalu :D
Mungkin emang berat sih bagi Icha untuk mengambil sebuah keputusan. Apalagi keputusan itu yang bukanlah sesuatu yang mudah untuk dipilih. Tapi hidup itu adalah pilihan. Kita ga akan pernah tahu apa yang akan terjadi ke depannya. Kita hanya bisa tahu apa yang baik (menurut kita) dan apa yang kita pilih adalah jalan yang benar. Sama kayak waktu Icha harus ninggalin Jakarta. Waduhh.... Itu yang namanya menghitung hari, bener2 udah menghitung hari banget tuh. Bahkan dari H-75, Icha udah hitung di BlackBerry Messenger Info Icha. Hahahaha (lebay ga? :p) Tapi bukan maksud Icha untuk semua orang tahu atau apa, cuma ya Icha ngerasa kalau dengan cara seperti itu Icha bisa mengekspresikan apa yang Icha rasakan; walaupun hanya dengan berkurangnya angka dari hari ke hari.
Icha masih inget banget bagaiman hectic-nya suasana tanggal 29 Juni 2009 itu. Icha masih harus ada yang diurus ke kampus (Ini bener-bener bertaruh nyawa banget), Icha juga janjian sama sahabat Icha di Plaza Senayan, karena dia dan yang lain-lain berencana untuk nganter sampai Airport. Pokoknya, itu semua bener-bener unforgettable moments banget deh. Sedih, panik, senang, kesel (pasti tahu karena apa), semuanya jadi satu. Hari itu Icha juga ngerasa kayak bukan Icha; dalam arti, saking complex-nya perasaan Icha, sampai-sampai Icha ga tahu gimana harus ngungkapinnya.
Percaya ga percaya, waktu Icha sampai di PS untuk ketemu Christine, Laura, dan sahabat2 Icha yang lain, hal pertama yang Icha lakukan: NANGIS! Haha. Bukan karena Icha cengeng ya, tapi emang Icha sedih banget. Dan Icha pun ga malu untuk meluapkan itu semua, sekalipun di tempat umum. Karena sebuah perasaan tidak bisa ditutupi. Yaa, mungkin tanggal 29 itulah puncak kesedihan Icha. Kalau mau dihitung-hitung sih, udah dari beberapa minggu sebelum keberangkatan, Icha udah nangis terus. Jadi sensitif banget. Denger lagu, langsung nangis.. Liat foto, langsung nangis.. Liat koper (Nah ini nih) itu juga langsung nangis!
And now... I've been here (in Melbourne) for 33 days.. Kuliah udah mulai, Icha pun sudah mulai membiasakan diri untuk tinggal disini, dan Icha pun senang.. Jujur, sedih pun sampai sekarang masih ada. Karena bagaimanapun juga, Icha dari lahir ada di Indonesia. Selama-lamanya ninggalin Tanah Air, itu 3 minggu. Sekarang, Icha harus meningglakan untuk jangka waktu bertahun-tahun.
Sebelumnya, Icha mau mengucapkan terima kasih kepada semua orang yang telah memberikan dukungan untuk Icha:
1. Allah SWT yang telah memberikan Icha kemudahan dan kelancaran dalam menjalani pendidikan Icha. Icha juga sangat bersyukur telah dikasih kesempatan untuk bisa merasakan bagaimana kerasnya mencari uang, apalagi di usia dini, dan Alhamdulillah tanpa hambatan. (Trima kasih ya Allah)
2. Keluarga Icha terutama Mama dan Daddy yang sudah sangat berusaha keras untuk mendidik Icha sehingga bisa tumbuh menjadi anak yang (mudah-mudahan) bisa menjadi kebanggaan orang tua. Untuk Daddy, makasih ya sudah mau bekerja keras untuk mencari uang untuk kehidupan keluarga. Icha tau walaupun mungkin hari-hari Icha selalu dihabiskan untuk shooting, tapi dukungan Daddy adalah semangat bagi Icha. I love you, Daddy. Dan untuk Mama, mungkin kalau Icha bisa mengungkapkan rasa terima kasih Icha di blog ini, akan sangat panjang. Karena Mama adalah orang yang paling berjasa dalam karir Icha. Mama yang selalu menemani kemanapun Icha pergi. Mama yang selalu ada di dalam kondisi apapun yang Icha alami. Mama juga orang yang telah berjuang untuk melahirkan Icha. Thank you, Mom. I love you.... Untuk Mas Nanda dan juga Ninis, you guys are so great. Makasih ya udah mau ngebantuin Icha :D:D Nis, Icha akan pulang kok ;) Mas, Icha jujur baru bener-bener ngerasa kalau Mas Nanda itu Mellow juga saat di Melbourne Airport. Icha ga pernah liat Mas Nanda nangis sampai kayak gitu hehehehe... Thank you guys.. You are the greatest treasure I've ever had in my life..
3. Sahabat, teman, semuanya yang ga bisa Icha sebutin satu-satu karena akan panjang banget... yang sudah ngedukung karir, pendidikan, segala sesuatu yang Icha lakukan selama ini. Dukungan dari kalian semua yang menambah semangat Icha untuk meneruskan pilihan Icha. Thank you for the support guys...
4. Last but not least, Alyssa Soebandono Lovers yang bener2 Icha sayangi. THANK YOU SOO MUCH FOR ALL THE THINGS, GUYS. Icha ga tahu gimana lagi harus ngucapin kata dan rasa terima kasih Icha untuk kalian semua. Awalnya, Icha pikir group itu hanya buat fun aja, tapi sampai akhirnya sekarang Icha sadar kalau kalian semua benar2 ngedukung apa yang Icha lakukan, termasuk bantu klarifikasi. Makasih yah kalian mau memberikan dukungan penuh untuk Icha. Bagi yang datang ke acara tanggal 21 Juni 2009, Icha seneng banget karena bisa ketemu sama orang-orang yang mengikuti karir Icha selama ini dan ngedukung secara ga langsung (karena kita ga pernah ketemu). Keep contact yah guys.. Mungkin Icha juga gabisa janji, tapi Icha hanya berdoa, kalau masih dikasih kesempatan untuk melanjutkan karir Icha, disaat kepulangan Icha, Icha akan tampil lagi ;) We'll see. Hehehe. Tapi yang jelas, dukungan kalian sangatlah berarti (beneran loh!!) Icha ga hanya sekedar omong kosong, tapi memang itulah yang Icha rasakan. Kerja sama kalian (lewat facebook, forum, chatting, etc), itu sangat membuat Icha terharu dan bangga. I LOVE ASL!
Mungkin sekarang itu dulu yang bisa Icha sampaikan. Tapi satu yang pasti, life must go on.
We never know what results come from our action, but if we do nothing, there will be no results. Don't be afraid to take big steps ;)
29.7.09
21.7.09
How real is reality?
Television is a mass communication medium that provides various both entertainment and information to meet the needs of diverse audiences.
It has existed for many years and its content has been presented in many ways; what we are going to discuss is the television shows that are categorized as “reality shows”. For the sake of this report we will exclude documentary, news, and non-fictional television programs from the definition.
The reality television programming popularly known as “reality shows” can be presented in many forms. Reality shows are produced in the form of games, quiz, or many other structures that in some countries, particularly Japan, can be regarded as absurd, silly, and ridiculous.
Even before television, radio produced programs intended to illustrate the realities of their subjects, people, or situations; these also were unscripted. There has long been an appetite for reality in the entertainment media. The audience wants to see into other people’s lives and producers love the low production costs.
An appearance on a television show can make people instant celebrities; however they need to sacrifice some of their privacy and dignity. Their lives become more open to scrutiny when the shows are broadcast. The early reality shows, starting the 1960s, were becoming too personal, they focused for instance on poverty, weddings and dating games. The reality shows with which we are most familiar started to become popular in the 1980s. The shows began utilizing modern technology; cameras and microphones became small enough to be easily moveable and virtually unobtrusive. Current technology shortens editing hours, and modern trends are to make quick cuts and to include dramatic or suspenseful music to make up for their lack on the raw footage. 
Nowadays, reality shows are numerous and it is almost impossible to list them. This clearly demonstrates their popularity – both among their producers and the audiences.
With widely broadcast programs, the shows could make people instant celebrities, causing unprepared people a great deal of personal anxiety. Programs like Kontes Dangdut Indonesia (KDI), Akademi Fantasi Indosiar (AFI) and Indonesian Idol have made the participants famous. Not all of those people can cope with sudden fame; some of them ended up having psychological problems that created difficulties in their lives. One example is Januarisman (Aris), the winner of Indonesian Idol 2008, whose family became so disturbed by the sudden change of life style, as a result of the constant intruding of the fans.
It isn’t just the contestants who suffer negative impact, however. The audiences themselves suffer a degree of degradation. People seem to enjoy watching the humiliation of people pictured in the shows. We find that people are in an awkward situation and are being humiliated, but the viewers seem to enjoy the scenes. Things like this can be seen in Fear Factor or other programs, that encourage the audience to enjoy humiliation as entertainment.
However, reality shows have also some impact politically in some countries, especially those under authoritarian regimes. People in a country like China, for instance, find that unscripted shows demonstrate freedom of expression and doing thing differently.
In Middle East countries, particularly Muslim countries like Afghanistan, women are strictly forbidden to do things openly. Afghan women see that they really want to have the same freedom as the women who live in other countries. Reality shows have contributed a vision and depiction an alternative lifestyle. So it is not all that bad.
However, some shows sometimes are not really “reality”; they are made to appear as such by some coaching beforehand. This arguably makes a reality show a “fake” show. These participants can be seen more as actors, having gone through drills by the show crews and, of course, they would undergo some post-production processing before being broadcast .
Many people make negative comments about these shows, especially those which were produced by the local TV stations in Indonesia.
“Oh no, all reality shows in Indonesia are fake “, Titi said to her friend.
Sad to say, some television shows are copying each other’s ideas. Therefore, we may find many so-called “reality shows” produced by local TV stations; different types of shows yet with great similarities among them.
Like it or not, reality shows play an important role in our life. With a very simple concept, it could be seen as a reflection of ordinary people’s lives or even offering some insights into the lives of some successful or high achieving people.
The latter should be seen as motivating factors, inspiring people to try to reach similar achievements. Some reality television programs originally produced in the early 2000s in the United States have reached extreme popularity throughout the world and it can be seen that many countries, including Indonesia, have tried hard to copy the ideas. TV series like: The Survivor and American Idol have been at the top of the list in the United States and also have enjoyed a lot of publicity. As such they have had a wide impact globally. There are some other series that are successful and even have been franchised in many countries, including Indonesia, for instance: Indonesian Idol.
But, is it true that all reality shows in Indonesia are “fake” shows?
A reality show is just entertainment. If you see most reality shows in Indonesia, you’ll see that they are generally something that relates to people, events or current situations. A portrait of life may be featured by an ordinary person, not a celebrity. The only reason not to use the celebrity as the actor is because the story is about real daily life activities. It is simple, yet it is intended to be an entertaining program.
What makes people judge that reality shows in Indonesia are not really reality?
There is no reality show that is one hundred percent real. If the producer tries to make it a “real” reality show, it might not be a reality show; it should be called a documentary. The mission of a reality show is to entertain society and to be enjoyed. With a little bit of exaggeration, the show will be more dramatic. But, the show must be good so people will not get bored while watching the show.
Among the reality shows currently being shown on the local TV stations in Indonesia are:
1. Pacar usil (Naughty boy/girl friend): shown in AnTV – it is a rather unique program featuring the naughtiness of a boy or girl friend making fun on each other.
2. Orang ke tiga (The 3rd person), featuring a problem of a spouse with the 3rd person entering in their lives.
3. John Pantau: criticizing the life style of people. For instance, the life of the government employees.
4. Termehek-mehek: stories about man or woman who wanted to rebuild a relationship with their ex.
5. Maafin dong ( Please forgive me) : a reality shows supposedly to help people to express their regret and asking for forgiveness
6. Cinta monyet: is about the first love stories of early teens.
7. Pacar pertama (First boy/girl friend) : about the first girl or boy friend
8. Cinlok: is about love affairs between celebrities during the film making at the shooting location.
9. Kacau (chaos): is regarding the chaotic situations in one’s life in a day.
10. Playboy kabel : featuring the life of four playboys trying to get some ‘victims’
11. Backstreet ; about secret or unapproved love
12. Makin gaya : about improving the appearance of person through changing their make-up and dress style
13. Mata-mata : is about unapproved boy or girl friend by the parent
14. CLBK : featuring of the returning old love
15. Jika aku menjadi.... (If I were….) : is about people who must try to live in the conflicting situation from the one they have.
As we can see, some of those programs are simply made to entertain and as stated before, people love to see other people being victimized, but many of them are about boy -girl relationships.
Everybody should realize that Termehek-Mehek, Katakan Cinta, Playboy Kabel, three shows categorized as “Love Reality Shows”, are selling dramatic love scenes regardless of their relation to reality.
“Ah, Termehek-Mehek is fake. It is all scripted. The story wasn’t making any sense at all” said Titi, an extra on CLBK when I asked her opinion on reality shows.
What is now becoming very popular but sacrificing the privacy of many people is the kind show that is called “infotainment”. These shows usually are very gossipy and intrude in the personal matters of the celebrities.
What is disturbing is that the privacy of the people in the show is being openly described, often up the level of humiliating the persons. Even those who are facing marital problems that may lead to real divorce, nothing is hidden and even some very private matters are exposed openly. The programs are also on the celebrities that are still in the initial stages of developing a relationship, but it is not limited to that. Some feature the sad part of a celebrity’s life like what happened to the late Sophan Sofyan who died tragically in a motorbike accident in East Java while participating in the Independence Day 2008 celebration.
The Nielsen Media Research (NMR) survey found that reality show viewers may also want the chance to shine in their life, as we see in their favorite reality shows: star-search contests. Shows such as Indonesian Idol, AFI, and KDI give ordinary people the chance to change their lives 180 degrees by becoming singing stars or comedians.
"More young Indonesians want the chance to appear on such shows. In conclusion, many of them want to improve their lives dramatically," NMR executive director said during an interview.
People seem so desperate to change their lives by taking short cut – a quick, easy way. In reality, it is not that easy and may even lead to a lot of difficulties in their life.
Nielsen did not explain the new trend, simply saying that horror and mystery shows remain the most popular for TV audiences. In terms of popularity, children's programs and entertainment shows, including reality shows and celebrity gossip programs, followed horror and mystery series and are still favored by the Indonesian viewers.
Nielsen did not explain the new trend, simply saying that horror and mystery shows remain the most popular for TV audiences. In terms of popularity, children's programs and entertainment shows, including reality shows and celebrity gossip programs, followed horror and mystery series and are still favored by the Indonesian viewers.
Reality shows apparently provide a glimmer hope for many ordinary people, but most of them will probably never get their big break to appear on let alone win on these shows. At least, these shows have some educational value for the contestants, in that they may at least gain some performing experience at the auditions.
Whatever one thinks of reality shows, the truth is they are not real. They can’t be real. Having a camera and a microphone in an ordinary person’s face is not reality. It is, however, entertainment. That’s why they are produced and that’s why they are watched. If one wants genuine reality, one would be well advised to turn off the television, get up from the sofa and go out into the real world.
19.7.09
First blog, first week of Univeristy
Hi there.
First of all,
Welcome to my blog :)
Okay. Actually, this is my first blog. Di hari yang sama (di Melbourne udah jam 01.00am), ini juga hari pertama Icha untuk masuk kuliah. Ergh, bukan hari pertama, tapi minggu pertama! Yey, I'm so excited.
The reason why I made this blog, karena udah banyak banget yang nanya. Sorry yaa baru buat. Hehehehe. Thank you guys, for always supporting me. Semoga Icha bisa update terus yaa. sering-sering baca yah. hehehehe. I hope I can post something yang bisa bikin kalian tertarik untuk baca.
Seriously, I don't know how to describe my feeling right now. I don't know why, but I really excited of being in the first week of University. Mungkin karena lingkungan yang berbeda kali ya? Walaupun ketemu-ketemu juga sih kadang-kadang sama orang Indonesia. Hehehe. Sekedar informasi, mungkin kalian bisa lihat di http://monash.edu.au/ supaya bisa "tour" lebih jauh dan mengenal lebih dekat Univeristy yang Icha pilih di Melbourne, Australia.
Kalau di ceritain semuanya, panjang juga sih. belum lagi ditambah I don't know apa yang akan terjadi within the first week. Semoga aja semuanya menyenangkan yaa. tapi biasanya, minggu-minggu pertama masih "agak biasa" aja ceritanya. Tapi begitu kelasnya udah mulai, itu adalah sesuatu yang baru bagi Icha.
Yaa, disini juga Icha ingin membuktikan ke semuanya, kalau Icha bukanlah seorang entertain yang tidak memperdulikan sekolah. Mungkin suka sebel aja sih, kalau orang menganggap kita rendah dan suka disama-samakan dengan yang lainnya. It's ok, though. Semua orang kan punya hak untuk mengeluarkan pendapatnya. Kalau Icha cuma "ngedumel" aja tapi ga melakukan sesuatu, mereka akan menganggap Icha sama seperti yang lain. Dengan perginya Icha ke Melbourne, Icha ingin membuktikan bahwa apapun yang terjadi, Icha akan tetap menomor satukan pendidikan. Dari awal Icha mulai (bahkan saat belum terjun ke dunia entertain), Icha sudah menomor satukan pendidikan. Tidak ada hal yang bisa menhalangi keinginan Icha untuk meneruskan pendidikan Icha. Dan Alhamdulillah, Icha bisa mebuktikan itu semua. Icha tidak perlu harus show-off dengan nilai yang bagus, karena yang terpenting adalah niat seseorang untuk melakukan sesuatu. Begitu juga dengan Icha. Segala sesuatu akan Icha lakukan untuk pendidikan.
Ditambah dengan adanya berita miring yang menerpa Icha beberapa pekan yang lalu, itu mebuat Icha semakin kuat akan tekad Icha meneruskan DAN MEMBUKTIKAN bahwa kepergian Icha ke Australia bukanlah untuk menghindari gosip, tapi memang murni untuk meneruskan pendidikan Icha.
First of all,
Welcome to my blog :)
Okay. Actually, this is my first blog. Di hari yang sama (di Melbourne udah jam 01.00am), ini juga hari pertama Icha untuk masuk kuliah. Ergh, bukan hari pertama, tapi minggu pertama! Yey, I'm so excited.
The reason why I made this blog, karena udah banyak banget yang nanya. Sorry yaa baru buat. Hehehehe. Thank you guys, for always supporting me. Semoga Icha bisa update terus yaa. sering-sering baca yah. hehehehe. I hope I can post something yang bisa bikin kalian tertarik untuk baca.
Seriously, I don't know how to describe my feeling right now. I don't know why, but I really excited of being in the first week of University. Mungkin karena lingkungan yang berbeda kali ya? Walaupun ketemu-ketemu juga sih kadang-kadang sama orang Indonesia. Hehehe. Sekedar informasi, mungkin kalian bisa lihat di http://monash.edu.au/ supaya bisa "tour" lebih jauh dan mengenal lebih dekat Univeristy yang Icha pilih di Melbourne, Australia.
Kalau di ceritain semuanya, panjang juga sih. belum lagi ditambah I don't know apa yang akan terjadi within the first week. Semoga aja semuanya menyenangkan yaa. tapi biasanya, minggu-minggu pertama masih "agak biasa" aja ceritanya. Tapi begitu kelasnya udah mulai, itu adalah sesuatu yang baru bagi Icha.
Yaa, disini juga Icha ingin membuktikan ke semuanya, kalau Icha bukanlah seorang entertain yang tidak memperdulikan sekolah. Mungkin suka sebel aja sih, kalau orang menganggap kita rendah dan suka disama-samakan dengan yang lainnya. It's ok, though. Semua orang kan punya hak untuk mengeluarkan pendapatnya. Kalau Icha cuma "ngedumel" aja tapi ga melakukan sesuatu, mereka akan menganggap Icha sama seperti yang lain. Dengan perginya Icha ke Melbourne, Icha ingin membuktikan bahwa apapun yang terjadi, Icha akan tetap menomor satukan pendidikan. Dari awal Icha mulai (bahkan saat belum terjun ke dunia entertain), Icha sudah menomor satukan pendidikan. Tidak ada hal yang bisa menhalangi keinginan Icha untuk meneruskan pendidikan Icha. Dan Alhamdulillah, Icha bisa mebuktikan itu semua. Icha tidak perlu harus show-off dengan nilai yang bagus, karena yang terpenting adalah niat seseorang untuk melakukan sesuatu. Begitu juga dengan Icha. Segala sesuatu akan Icha lakukan untuk pendidikan.
Ditambah dengan adanya berita miring yang menerpa Icha beberapa pekan yang lalu, itu mebuat Icha semakin kuat akan tekad Icha meneruskan DAN MEMBUKTIKAN bahwa kepergian Icha ke Australia bukanlah untuk menghindari gosip, tapi memang murni untuk meneruskan pendidikan Icha.
... It's 01.35am now...
I think I'm going to sleep. Hope you'll enjoy my blog. Okay? Good night.
Sincerely,
Alyssa Soebandono
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